Before You Start: What “Right” Feels Like
The correct contraction is a gentle, internal lift—as if you’re stopping urine and holding back gas at the same time—without squeezing your butt, inner thighs, or upper abs. On the inhale, everything softens/lengthens; on the exhale, you create a subtle lift. If this feels fuzzy, read How to Do Kegels Correctly and practice the breath from The Diaphragm Connection.
Keep the master map handy: The Ultimate Guide to Pelvic Floor Exercises.
The 7-Day Plan (6–10 minutes per day)
Day 1 — Find the Muscles (Reclined)
- Breath primer (2–3 min): One hand on ribs, one on belly. Inhale = ribs widen, belly softens; Exhale = gentle inner lift.
- Endurance intro (6 reps): On exhale, lift 3–4 seconds; inhale, release 8–10 seconds. Keep jaw/shoulders relaxed.
- Down-train (1 min): Three long breaths, imagine pelvic floor widening.
Guardrails: If you feel heaviness or pain, reduce effort to 20–30% and extend release time.
Day 2 — Add Awareness (Side-Lying)
- Position: Side-lying with pillow between knees.
- Breath (2–3 min): Focus on back-body expansion into the floor.
- Holds (8 reps): 4–5s lifts on exhale, 8–10s releases on inhale.
- Quick flicks (1 set x 6): One second lift/one second release.
Tip: If flicks feel choppy, drop them and emphasize slow holds until coordination improves.
Day 3 — Sit Tall (Chair)
- Posture: Ribs over pelvis, evenly on sitz bones, feet planted.
- Breath (2 min).
- Holds (8–10 reps): 5–6s lifts / 8–10s release.
- Quick flicks (2 sets x 6–8).
Fix: If you catch yourself squeezing glutes, place hands under the butt to feel if you’re clenching—then relax and try again.
Day 4 — Stack & Relax (Release Emphasis)
- Position: Supported child’s pose or reclined with feet elevated.
- Long releases: 6 reps of 3–4s lift followed by 12–15s release.
- Side-to-side breathing: Send inhale into left ribs for 3 breaths, then right ribs.
- Optional: Gentle adductor/inner-thigh stretch with breath.
Why: Many beginners accidentally accumulate tension. Today resets resting tone.
Day 5 — Standing Skill (Short & Sweet)
- Posture check: Soft ribs, unlocked knees, long neck.
- Holds (6–8 reps): 5s lift / 8–10s release.
- Sit-to-stand (5 reps): Inhale as you sit; exhale + lift to stand.
- Quick flicks (1–2 sets x 6).
Note: If heaviness appears, return to sitting for holds, keep sit-to-stand slow and breathy.
Day 6 — Functional add-ons
- Hinge to countertop (3 x 6): Inhale to hinge (pelvic floor lengthens), exhale + lift to stand.
- Short carry (3 x room-length): Hold a light object, breathe and walk, no breath holds.
- Holds (6 reps): 6s lift / 10s release to finish.
Troubleshoot: Any leaks or heaviness? Reduce reps/load and revisit Common Mistakes.
Day 7 — Review & Personalize
- Self-check: Which position gives the best control? Which cues help most?
- Mini test: 8s hold + 8s release x 8 reps; 2 x 8 quick flicks.
- Plan next week: Keep two easy days (release focus), three skill days (holds + flicks), two integration days (sit-to-stand/hinge).
After Week One: Your Next 4 Weeks (At a Glance)
Weeks 2–3:
- 10 x 8–10s holds (match release time), 2–3 x 8–10 quick flicks, add standing work twice/week.
Week 4:
- Add squats-to-box (3 x 6), light carries, and refine The Knack for cough/sneeze moments (quick anticipatory lift on exhale).
Week 5+:
- If symptom-free, begin Beyond Kegels for integrated strength.
Special Paths
- Postpartum: Begin with reclined/side-lying, gentle breath-led holds, and longer releases. See Postpartum 12-Week Plan.
- Pregnancy: Emphasize release and breath; dial down intensity in late trimesters. See Pregnancy Exercises.
- Prolapse: Favor gravity-reduced positions, endurance-first with long releases. See Prolapse.
- Men: Men’s cues and goals differ slightly—review Men’s Guide.
Keep the Ecosystem Connected
- Pillar: Ultimate Guide to Pelvic Floor Exercises
- Technique: How to Do Kegels Correctly
- Breath engine: The Role of Breathing in Pelvic Floor Exercises
- Advanced path: Beyond Kegels: 5 Advanced Pelvic Floor Exercises
- Postpartum path: Postpartum Pelvic Floor Exercises
- Men’s path: Pelvic Floor Exercises for Men
- Pregnancy: Safe Pelvic Floor Exercises for Every Stage of Pregnancy
- Prolapse-aware: Pelvic Floor Exercises for Prolapse
- Intimacy: Pelvic Floor Exercises for Intimacy
- Troubleshooting: Common Mistakes